I will be writing in a journal — you know, old school write? Dominique and I decided this would be a great activity to do together and I think there will be big benefit from doing so. So today I will write (on yesterday’s topic). Dominique picked our first topic — “Something I’m upset about.” Wow. So I’ll write about something I’m upset about, and as I sit here and consider that, I am thankful for the blessing that an old school journal will bring. It will be me, my thoughts and that’s it — no public display, no soap box, no platform for discussion, just me and what I was upset by. The intention is that I will share my thoughts with Dominique and she’ll share her thoughts back.
Often, I wonder what we miss by not having human interaction in conversation, what part of us is simply going away without even being aware that it’s happening. It’s true when I consider that my son’s preferred method of communication is a series of text messages that I can never seem to keep up with. And then, to use a Colorado Youth at Risk “ism” I walk around the “Perspective Box” look at things from a different view and get to consider the freedom in writing and that sometimes, that is really a more powerful choice. It keeps me from saying those things that I can’t take back, I can go edit, and for me, that can really be a gift. I imagine that it can for many.
So consider a journal… no need to write the next great American novel, but I wonder what you might find.
And writing it down gets it off your chest. It’s like venting to yourself before you make the mistake of saying something you can’t take back…